Switch (BDSM) - Definition

In the field of sexuality, a switch is someone who can change from one sexual role to another.

In anal sex among men, a switch is someone who participates both in the penetrative and penetrated roles at different times - i.e. enjoys both topping and bottoming.

In BDSM, a switch is someone who participates in BDSM activities as both a top and a bottom. A switch will be the top on some occasions and the bottom on other occasions. Switches are very common; partners may switch roles based on mood, desire, or being with a different partner.

A 'switch' may be in a relationship with someone of the same primary BDSM orientation (two dominants, say), so switching provides each partner with an opportunity to realize his or her unsatisfied BDSM needs with others.

A person who engages in self-bondage can be viewed as taking both roles simultaneously.

The term switch might also be used to mean a thin wooden stick used to cause pain.

See also

• top
• bottom